In the previous episode, I talked about my first two philosophy shifts when it comes to how I feed my own kids and talk about picky eating. We dealt with the “no thank-you bite” and how/when to serve dessert. I’m truly grateful for the professionals who helped me change my thinking and my ways!

Today, we’ll dive into three other mindset changes I’ve had when it comes to feeding kids. The first has to do with introducing foods to babies, which isn’t actually a part of The Picky Eater Playbook—but it’s still something to consider and an important first step for parents!

Then we will get into how our food looks (does it matter?) and briefly touch on kids who really WOULD starve themselves if they aren’t served certain foods.

You’ll learn:

  • why I think eczema and food sensitivities might have been caused by Paul and Leah’s first foods
  • what first foods I think work best for babies
  • why I started rethinking “you don’t taste with your eyes” and how cute foods might actually be more appealing to children
  • what working with 20,000 families taught me about my stance that kids will eat eventually, they won’t starve
  • how to reduce pressure at family meals
  • and why the laid-back way I wrote The Picky Eater Playbook means you will probably be able to adapt it for your family!

I’m outlining all the pre-order bonuses for you, too, so make sure to listen or watch to the end of the episode. I sure hope you’ll think it’s worthwhile to pre-order a copy of the book and delve into making dinnertime a more peaceful time for your whole family.

You deserve that, Mom, and so do your kids! Get out of the chicken nugget and pizza rut. It CAN be better.

The kitchen is a place where kids can make friends with food without the pressure to eat. -Katie Kimball

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Key Takeaways about Picky Eating Tips for Parents

  • How we introduce and expose kids to food matters. Babies and young children benefit from seeing, smelling, touching, and making a mess with food instead of experiencing everything through a pouch. Here are my favorite nourishing first foods for babies.
  • Kids really do “taste with their eyes” in a sense. The way food looks and is presented can shape a child’s first impression and affect how willing they are to interact with it.
  • Not every child who refuses food is simply a picky eater. Some children are problem feeders who may eat an extremely limited number of foods or even go long periods without eating, which can be a sign that professional feeding support is needed. Learn more from my interview with Dr. Kay Toomey.

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If you’ve done the No More Picky Eating Challenge and want to have all my strategies at your fingertips, it’s the perfect resource! Or if you’re just beginning to tackle dinnertime struggles at your house, it will walk you through my whole system for eliminating picky eating.

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  • There is no single picky eating system that works exactly the same way for every child. Good routines provide a foundation, but parents need permission to adapt them to their child and family.
  • Real change usually happens slowly. Repeated low-pressure exposure over weeks, months, and even years can help kids regain foods they have dropped and develop a healthier relationship with eating.

The kitchen is where kids can make friends with food without the pressure to eat. – Katie Kimball, Raising Healthy Families

  • Getting kids into the kitchen is one of the most powerful forms of food exposure because they can interact with ingredients without the pressure to take a bite.

Action Steps from This Episode

  • Give younger kids opportunities to touch, smell, squish, and explore food—even when it gets messy.
  • Pay attention to presentation. Try making unfamiliar foods colorful, appealing, or simply easy for kids to investigate.

The way a food looks and is presented can be a massive component in how a child accepts and builds a relationship with that food. – Katie Kimball, Raising Healthy Families

  • Notice whether your child’s food list is continuing to shrink or whether they regularly avoid eating for long periods.
  • Adapt picky eating strategies to fit your child instead of assuming one approach should work for everyone.
  • Think long term and celebrate small wins, including touching, preparing, smelling, or returning to a previously dropped food.
  • Invite your child into the kitchen for low-pressure food exposure through cooking, prepping, or even helping with cleanup.

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Resources We Mention for Picky Eating Tips